Weekend Recap: Moving in with Ben!

Hey everyone, happy Monday!  I mean, let’s at least try to make it happy, okay. 😉

This weekend was a bit crazy, but we got in some good eats + moved, so it was a good one. I do have to say, though, Ben and I need to go on a serious “food budget” once we’re back from San Diego. I spend SO much money on food! Don’t get me wrong, I love trying out new places, but it just can’t be as frequent as it has been. Anyways, on to the weekend!

Friday was probably one of the slowest days of my life at work. It wasn’t super busy and for some reason, the day was dragging on, especially in the afternoon. I stuck myself in Hogsmeade, one of our breakout rooms, for a few hours, but that didn’t help too much.

Weekend Recap: Moving in with Ben Weekend Recap: Moving in with BenThe best part of my day was having a call earlier in the day with a potential client I’m REALLY excited about so keep your fingers crossed for me!

After work I hopped on the train with my friend/colleague Perry and headed home. Once home, I hung out with Cora for awhile, ate some dinner and then hung out with Ben before hitting the sack for an early bedtime.

Saturday morning I slept in a tiny bit until 8 am, played with Cora and then walked to a salon to get my eyebrows waxed, then walked home to play with the pup. On my way home, I stopped at a new-to-me coffee shop called Sip Coffeehouse and fell in love. In fact, if you are following me on Snapchat or Instagram stories, I told you all about it. 😉

Ben came over around noon and we immediately started moving. Most of it was easy – just shoving boxes and bags into his SUV and driving it two blocks, then putting it in the apartment. Unfortunately his roommate isn’t moving out until Thursday, so we couldn’t put anything away, but at least it’s *almost* all in his/OUR place!

The only bad thing was we had to carry my 5’x5′ heavy-duty cube wall the two blocks and into his basement. I was not loving it and kept saying, “I DON’T WANT THIS THING ANYMORE.” We did it, though.

Weekend Recap: Moving in with BenPlus, that was the only big thing we had to move – my couch, kitchen counter thingy and bed are all staying because the new tenant said he’d take them. We just have to grab some last minute things Tuesday night and then I’m officially out! We’ll be staying there, though, since things are still a little rocky at his place.

I was in such a good mood even though I hate moving. I think I’m just so excited to finally be officially living with my little family, not having to go back and forth. Soon!

Around 3:30, we headed to Butterfly Sushi with a bottle of wine #BYOB and got some sushi. Sushi was good, wine was good … I drank too much wine … (and Ben’s getting the #blogger pose down 😉

Weekend Recap: Moving in with Ben Weekend Recap: Moving in with Ben Weekend Recap: Moving in with BenAfter a late lunch, we headed back home and I blabbed to Ben about weddings and babies (#wine) until he took a nap and I pinned wedding things on Pinterest. Just being real with ya. 😉

The wine started to wear off and for some reason it made me kinda cranky. We spent the rest of the night hanging with the puppy, eating a late dinner and doing a few last minute plans/reservations for San Diego. Tons of plans in San Diego, but not sure what to do in Laguna Beach so if you have any suggestions, let me know!

Weekend Recap: Moving in with Ben Weekend Recap: Moving in with BenSunday I woke up just before 7, took Cora out and played with her until Ben woke up. We decided to walk to a little cafe not too far from our place called the Windy City Cafe for breakfast. It was so cute and our waitress was phenomenal. I had a Southwest Skillet, Ben had Southern Comfort (biscuits, chicken and gravy – not the alcohol haha!) and we shared Cinnamon Roll French Toast (see what I mean about with a food budget?!)

Weekend Recap: Moving in with BenAfter breakfast we headed to Sip Coffeehouse because Ben had to do work and I wanted to show him this place. Definitely our new go-to spot – I’m so happy I tried it out on Saturday! So much more space and better vibe than Starbucks. Still overpriced coffee, but oh well.

Weekend Recap: Moving in with Ben Weekend Recap: Moving in with BenI left Sip around 10:45 to go to 4-Elements Salon (the place I went for my brow wax, actually) to get a mani and pedi. I probably shouldn’t be, due to my current financial situation, but my feet are disgusting from walking all summer in sandals for miles to/from work and I’ve been promising myself a manicure since January for my birthday so … I did it!

Weekend Recap: Moving in with Ben! Weekend Recap: Moving in with Ben! Weekend Recap: Moving in with Ben!After that, I walked home, got everything all packed for the puppy to drop her off in the suburbs (SAD) and headed off to Ben’s parents’ house for a wedding anniversary party. I cried before we got her in the car and then cried the whole way home. I miss that sassy little nugget already. And that was my weekend! Leaving for San Diego on Wednesday, so be sure to watch out for that!

How was your weekend?
Have you ever been to Laguna Beach? Any recommendations?
Any flight anxiety tips?


  1. Maddy says:

    Laguna is adorable. You can really just walk around the downtown and explore because there are a lot of shops and restaurants and it is cute. The beach is beautiful, Nick’s restaurant is delicious, and you could easily do kayak and paddle board rentals! Crystal Cove State Park is on the way to Laguna from Newport and is wonderful to walk along the beach.

    xo, Maddy

  2. Megan says:

    Ugh, moving is the worst! Way to go for moving that big cube thing 2 blocks! I would be dying, haha. I think a manicure & pedicure is completely justified after all that too. 🙂 Have fun in San Diego! I’ve always wanted to visit there so I’m excited to see/hear how your trip goes!
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    • Jessie says:

      I was dying – ha! I made Ben stop like 500 times. Haha, I think so too. Thank you! I’ve always wanted to go, too, so we’ll see what we can find!

  3. Mom says:

    Love your 1st photo! You look very happy!
    Skate board under the shelf would have helped!
    Have a wonderful time in CA!
    Love you

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